MORE THAN SEX!

There’s more to sex than mere skin on skin. Sex is as much spiritual mystery as physical fact. As written in Scripture, “The two become one.” Since we want to become spiritually one with the Master, we must not pursue the kind of sex that avoids commitment and intimacy, leaving us more lonely than ever—the kind of sex that can never “become one.” There is a sense in which sexual sins are different from all others. In sexual sin we violate the sacredness of our own bodies, these bodies that were made for God-given and God-modeled love, for “becoming one” with another. Or didn’t you realize that your body is a sacred place, the place of the Holy Spirit? Don’t you see that you can’t live however you please, squandering what God paid such a high price for? The physical part of you is not some piece of property belonging to the spiritual part of you. God owns the whole works. So let people see God in and through your body.

If his tummy is paining him...please give him felvin 👿👿😈👿

Most importantly......don't lead him on...its difficult!! Yes!! Sometimes you will get horngry but remember you're doing it for God!

If he truly cares about you....he will wait!


Love,
Oye (DivineDiva)

I Am...

I am the temple of the Holy Spirit; I am not my own (1 Corinthians 6:19).

I am the head and not the tail; I am above only and not beneath (Deuteronomy 28:13).

I am the light of the world (Matthew 5:14).

I am His elect, full of mercy, kindness, humility, and longsuffering (Romans 8:33; Colossians 3:12).

I am forgiven of all my sins and washed in the Blood (Ephesians 1:7).

I am delivered from the power of darkness and translated into God’s kingdom (Colossians 1:13).

I am redeemed from the curse of sin, sickness, and poverty (Deuteronomy 28:15-68; Galatians 3:13).

I am firmly rooted, built up, established in my faith and overflowing with gratitude (Colossians 2:7). #InChristAlone#Divinediva 💕#JoyceMeyer #KnowingWhoIam

My Future Husband...

I'm getting married to the most amazing man on earth...the type that wouldn't ask me "how many sexual partners I've had"...the type that would support my transparency & not be ashamed of my story...i've confessed my sins to God & reconciled with my past...I don't owe any man any explanation.

 My husband will have full confidence in me & i will bring him good all the days of my life... John 8vs7 when they kept on questioning him, he straightened up and said to them, "Let any one of you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her." 💕💕💕 My unknown future is in the hands of the all-knowing God..

Emotional sex 1..."play together not pray together"

This might sound contradictory to your Christian beliefs. It is true that prayer is such an important part of any relationship. While this sounds well and good…in my opinion, i feel it’s actually a really dangerous road to travel at such early stages in a relationship.

I've heard about so many couples who started their relationship by investing time in deep spiritual prayer with one another and spending time in God’s word together but there's just something about it that doesn't seem acceptable to me.

Seeking the heart of God and pouring out your heart and soul to Him through prayer is one of the most emotionally vulnerable places you will ever be.  It’s essentially like being spiritually naked because before God, you hide nothing emotionally.

It’s good to pray about your relationship and to seek God’s voice, but WAIT to seek it together. In the early stages of dating, seek to pursue God as an individual before allowing your relationship with Him to become a trio prematurely by including your significant other.  There will be a day for deep and intimate spiritual unity…but it’s not now.

Datung relationship in it’s early stages is meant to be a time of getting to know each other, and learning all the superficial things you can know before taking it to the next level. Use this season for just that!  Don’t go too deep too fast, because the emotional intimacy that comes with deep shared moments like this can actually pull you in far deeper than you were ever meant to go, and in the end, leave you with a broken heart…and a broken spirit.

Share your thoughts...

Love,

@iamdivinediva1

Healthy People Make Healthy Relationship..

I’m getting sick and tired of our culture’s attempt to fix “marriages” across our country, without actually fixing individuals first. Marriages are suffering because the individual people within those marriages are broken, bruised, and in need of healing. I like to remind people that the only way to create a healthy relationship, is to become healthy standing alone.

We bring all our baggage and our junk into marriage, and then we’re surprised when it rears it’s ugly head. But I can guarantee you that all your junk will be multiplied and magnified within the pressure cooker of marriage. Christians, let’s not be naive- the very things you struggle with while standing alone, will be the very things you eventually struggle with in the context of your marriage. 100% of the time. Whether you are single, married, or somewhere in between, there is no better time than this to look inward and allow God to open your eyes to the things you need to work out in your life – and then to actually do something about it.

Love,

@iamdivinediva1

She got a ring without giving her thing 💍💍💍

@breefree shared her purity testimony on instagram and being a purity ambasaddor, i thought it would be nice to encourage someone. Just so we're clear "everyone is not doing it"! It's possible to have the man of your dreams without sex! As women it's a natural thing for us to want to please our men in every way but is it right? Just because something is easy doesn't mean it's right! We must take a stand & do what's right! If he can't wait for you then HE's not worth it! Know who & whose you are before you allow someone else to define you! Your worth is far above rubies darling! If you know you can't handle being alone after 9, take your cute little self HOME! Why would he buy the car if he can test drive it at will? You're worth waiting for ❤️

  When you know who you are in Christ, settling for an ungodly relationship wouldn't be an option.

Love,

Oye..💗💗

A Letter From Your Future Spouse

Hey Love,

Let me fill you in: I think about you just as much as you think about me.  It’s kind of crazy in a way, isn’t it, to think of how much we think about each other, though we haven’t even met?  Wondering where you are, who you’re with, and what you’re doing.  Wondering what you look like, what you’re like, and what you’ll become.  While you’ve been on my mind, I’ve thought about the things I’d want to say to you.  With all that I could say, there are three things that I really want you to know.

1. I’m working on me, and I pray that you’re working on you:  It’s encouraging to see the qualities and traits you are hoping that I possess.  I looked through your list just the other day and realized something incredible- those are the exact same things I hope to see in you.  It challenged me- because it’s so easy to think through all the things I want in my future mate without really taking the time to work those same things out in my life.  I will commit to taking inventory of my life, and getting myself where I need to be- I owe that to God, myself, and to you.  I want to begin the process of change and growth long before we ever meet, and I hope you’ll do the same for me.

2.  Our love will fuel us, but it can never fill us:  I’m working to be the best I can be until the day we finally meet, but if I’m honest, sometimes I get a little fearful.  I read your letters, and they are filled with so much hope and expectations.  Part of me loves to hear your dreams and desires, but the other side of me is afraid- knowing that just as you don’t have the ability to fulfill my life, I don’t have the ability to fill the voids in yours.  I want our relationship to be a place of safety, strength, and satisfaction- but I also know that there are some things our relationship will never be capable of doing.

My desire for us is that we get our expectations right, and that even during this time of being apart, we both seek to really work out our relationship with God.  In Him, all expectations, purpose, and value can be me- and then anything we have to give one another is just overflow.  This is the kind of love I want to be overflowing into every part of our relationship.

3.  We owe it to each other to choose well.  Everyone around me seems to be talking about fate.  As though finding true love is this serendipitous thing that is just going to happen to us when the timing is right.  I don’t know about you, but I don’t really believe in this kind of love.  It relies on chance, luck, and happenstance.  I don’t want our future to be determined by fate- I want it to be deliberate!

I know that there are going to be many others that come into each of our lives until we ultimately meet- but I’m asking that you hold out for me.  Set your hopes high. Wait for the one who has worked hard for you.  Wait for the one who has prayed for you, respected you, and honored you.  Don’t settle for anything less.  In this world filled with choices, we owe it to one another to choose well.  Keep your eyes open for me.  And I’ll do the same for you.

No matter where you may be in life right now, know that I am with you in my heart.  God has created a special place in my heart that was made to be fit by you.  As hard as it might be to keep from looking at your  future, I challenge you to savor your present- trusting that one day, I will be here to savor it with you.

For now, let us throw off the distractions, and keep our eyes on the moment- as we walk one step closer to God and to each other every single day.

You are in my heart, and you are in my prayers.

I’ll see you soon.

xoxo