Healthy People Make Healthy Relationship..

I’m getting sick and tired of our culture’s attempt to fix “marriages” across our country, without actually fixing individuals first. Marriages are suffering because the individual people within those marriages are broken, bruised, and in need of healing. I like to remind people that the only way to create a healthy relationship, is to become healthy standing alone.

We bring all our baggage and our junk into marriage, and then we’re surprised when it rears it’s ugly head. But I can guarantee you that all your junk will be multiplied and magnified within the pressure cooker of marriage. Christians, let’s not be naive- the very things you struggle with while standing alone, will be the very things you eventually struggle with in the context of your marriage. 100% of the time. Whether you are single, married, or somewhere in between, there is no better time than this to look inward and allow God to open your eyes to the things you need to work out in your life – and then to actually do something about it.

Love,

@iamdivinediva1

21 steps to a rightful relationship

*Ask the Holyspirit to Lead you 

* The morning after: It's your walk... Win the war... Count it all Joy

* forgive no matter what. God requires us to forgive, since God is love, we can love.

* Are you in the right relationship 

-check in with the master 

- Discernment: ask God the persons purpose in your life. Move on if you have to, it is for the better and the biggest.

* Call upon the Lord

- Know the purpose of each relationship.

* Disobedience blocks blessings- be obedient to him.

* better is the end than the beginning 

- Keep a journal

- be consistent in prayers

* How do you recognize true love

- real love recognizes real love

- you have to put God first

* Power of Discernment 

- Wisdom to know what is God given 

- Godly versus Godly choices 

* Create a relationship with him

- Stay connected to the vine

- surrender to his will

*The Lord has not forgotten about you 

-Nothing is impossible 

- believe again 

- don't bury your dreams in the grave

* How bad do you want it?

- Some things come by prayer and fasting

- be anxious for nothing

* He will restore you, Only Him can.

*Don't lie to yourself 

- Don't Ignore what God is telling you.

- Trust Him

* Let go! You deserve better.

- Yes God has better.

* Start thanking Him for it

- the set time will come 

- put it into the atmosphere 

* get over bad relationships 

- Overcome rejection, Guard you heart 

- men's your broken heart, God wants the best for you 

- don't search for love in wrong places, Get into His word 

* Break the chain, unlock the chains. Move into your rightful place.

*He wants all of you

- put no one before God 

- surrender yourself to God

* Marrying the one he has for you

- how can two walk together unless they agree

- do not be unequally yoked 

- Father if this relationship is not you, please close the door.

* Ask this questions

- Are we equally yoked?

- Should I continue this path?

- Is this God's will for my life?

- Is this person willing to be obedient to Gods will in everything?

- Will this relationship bring glory to God

God loves you....

Happy Sunday