Dating is such a special time. It’s a time to really get to know someone and invest in who they are. It’s a time to let your guard down a little at a time and begin to share the truths of who you are.
But that’s the key word. A little…at…a…time. When you enter into relationship, you should be at a point in your life where you are ready to be open, ready to share, and ready to communicate. But there should always be limits to this kind of openness. There are times to be open and share your heart–but, there are also times to withhold.
I don’t recommend sitting down at your first date and spilling every detail and secret in your life. Relationships should be seen as a journey of building trust. You build a little at a time. You give a little at a time. Lay the foundations first, then begin building the house. Be real, be genuine, and be honest- but never without the anchor of boundaries and the weight of wisdom.
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